Day 2: Love is kind

Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.

—Ephesians 4:32

In addition to saying nothing negative to your spouse again today, do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness.

Today's dare sounds like another easy one: continue to be patient, don't say negative things, and add in an unexpected act of kindness.  I am not sure what kind of thing I am going to do fo the kindness.
I guess as the day progresses I will see. 
  I can, and will, continue to work on employing greater patience with Grumpy, (and Sarah,) because it is such a simple way to effect a positive change in our home.  It merely requires me to take a deep breath and think before I speak.  That, I can practice and do!

Tomorrow:  day 3 love is not selfish.