when is it a secret ?? or a lie.. ??
What’s acceptable to keep from someone?.
People do things that they know will hurt others and they don’t want to tell them, so they ask,
“Why do I have to say anything?
Secret? Lie?
You should ask these questions before you do something potentially hurtful!
Can’t I just keep on living my life? Wouldn’t it just make things worse?”
It’s going to hurt no matter what.
Secret?? Lie??If the offense is big enough, it’s going to hurt worse if you don’t come out with it.
Secret??? Lie???
Just because you don’t say anything doesn’t mean they don't feel that something is wrong or something has happened; they just can’t put their finger on it and it will drive them mad.
Secret???? Lie????
Also, the truth always, ALWAYS, comes out. So you might think you’re smarter than everyone else, but reality is that the person will find
out and be even more hurt because you tried to keep it from them.
the thing you thought was a secret..
or was that really a lie.
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Wednesday, May 05, 2010 11:25:00 AM
You are so absolutely right about the truth always coming out.
I am loving your introspective posts. They are making me think & reflect on what is important & what I need to be doing better.
Wednesday, May 05, 2010 1:50:00 PM
That is an interesting thought. And I agree--the truth will always come out in the end.
Wednesday, May 05, 2010 2:25:00 PM
yep.. i'm with everyone else.. i've never known for the truth to NOT come out.. it always does.
Wednesday, May 05, 2010 2:45:00 PM
I'm al about truth. Sometimes the delivery needs to be softened, but truth always reigns.
Wednesday, May 05, 2010 3:02:00 PM
yep, and many times the truth comes out are really sets you free! Yea for that!
Wednesday, May 05, 2010 7:57:00 PM
Truth... Say it with love... And it doesn't hurt as much.
Thursday, May 06, 2010 6:58:00 PM
Yes. The truth is always the best.
I sometimes have a hard time if someone asks my opinion on things like - Do you like the color I painted this room (and I don't) - I have a hard time getting through those questions because I don't want to hurt someone. So I say something like "It looks like it's the perfect color for your style" or something like that.
Sometimes it can be hard.
Saturday, May 08, 2010 3:29:00 PM
So first of the big red circle was playing tricks on my eyes.
now to the post.
My mom always says lying will always come and bite you in the butt.
And I only have 3 lies or secrets that have not done that yet.... so when they do Ill let you know :)