when is it a secret ?? or a lie.. ??

What’s acceptable to keep from someone?.
People do things that they know will hurt others and they don’t want to tell them, so they ask,
“Why do I have to say anything?  

 Secret?    Lie?

You should ask these questions before you do something potentially hurtful! 

Can’t I just keep on living my life? Wouldn’t it just make things worse?”
 It’s going to hurt no matter what.

Secret?? Lie??

 If the offense is big enough, it’s going to hurt worse if you don’t come out with it.

Secret???  Lie???

 Just because you don’t say anything doesn’t mean they don't feel that something is wrong or something has happened; they just can’t put their finger on it and it will drive them mad.

Secret????  Lie????

Also, the truth always, ALWAYS, comes out. So you might think you’re smarter than everyone else, but reality is that the person will find 
out and be even more hurt because you tried to keep it from them.

the thing you thought was a secret..
or was that really a lie.