Everybody has "the blues" or "feels down" from time to time. It's normal
to feel sad for short periods, especially if something bad had happened in our
lives. But those of us who suffer from depression have much more than "the
blues", and our feelings can last for a long time.
There are many sufferers of this illness.
But family and friends who've never experienced true depression can have
trouble understanding what it's like. Many people find it difficult to think of
depression as an illness because their are no obvious physical symptoms. But
depression is an illness, which is caused by chemical changes in the brain. Few
people think that a physical illness is the sufferer's fault-and no one should
think depression is, either.
Like any other illness, depression has certain symptoms. Once these have
been recognized, you can take measures to treat them. Some are: feeling sad,
worried or depressed; feeling as if your life is dreary and unlikely to improve;
had crying spells; become irritated over little things that didn't used to
bother you; find you no longer enjoy hobbies and activities that once made you
happy; feel a lack of self-confidence or feeling like a failure; lost your
appetite, or are eating more than usual; have had trouble sleeping, or been
sleeping too much; had trouble concentrating and making decisions; and thought
about death and/or suicide.
Knowing the causes for depression can help depressed people, friends,
family understand how painful it is and why it's not possible to "snap out of
it". It's still not completely clear why depression happens to some of us and
not to others, but their are some triggers: stressful events or a loss, physical
illness, hormone levels, and use of certain medications, drugs, or alcohol.
Most of us think sadness when we think of depression, but there are
other physical, emotional, and mental effects, too. Many depressed people feel
helpless, and as if this is the way that they are going to feel forever. They
have a lack of energy and a lack of interest in life. It's hard for them to ever
imagine feeling happy or excited again. Some may withdraw and be less sociable.
They may also become short-tempered and difficult to please. No one can do
anything right. The world of depression is a lonely place to be.
Physical problems can also occur. Some may have trouble getting to sleep
or wake up a lot during the night. Others just want to sleep all the time. It
can also cause someone to lose his or her appetite, or want to eat all the time.
They may crave sweets, and have stomach pains, constipation, headaches, sweating,
a racing heart, or other symptoms.
But these days, there are many ways to treat depression.
That means no depressed person should suffer needlessly.
Medical care, antidepressant
medications, counselling, and the support of family and friends are all
effective in treating depression. Keep in mind that the most important step in
treating depression is SEEKING HELP.
If you are depressed, please take a few
minutes to call your doctor today, so you can start feeling better as soon as
possible. And remember... there is hope.
Sunday, March 28, 2010 11:55:00 AM
So sorry. It sounds like you've had a tough time of it lately. I hope you get the help you need. I'll be thinking of you. Take care
Sunday, March 28, 2010 4:30:00 PM
Gramee!! you are the best you have described in ways I have never been able to, to my family and friends. I wish you had have let me know and I would have been there for you. I am now. I love you so much! You have been such a rock for me, now let me be one for you! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO!!!!!
P.S. I loved the comment you made on Hannah's blog. She smiled ear to ear. I know she will think of you as a gramee and someone she can talk to when she needs someone besides me!!
Sunday, March 28, 2010 5:24:00 PM
I don't suffer from dpression but I can tell you chronic fatigue syndrome has a lot of the same symptoms & seeking help is critical in helping me to manage the symptoms.
Bless you for taking about something that many people, for whatever reason, still feel ashamed to talk about.
You may have save someone's life today...or even their sanity & self esteem. Depression is not shameful & if you receive help, support & unconditional love can be manageable.
Sunday, March 28, 2010 6:59:00 PM
Oh I am so sorry. thinking of you and you are in my prayers. ofa lahi atu!
Sunday, March 28, 2010 11:44:00 PM
Oh, Linda! I have missed you so very much.
You know that song "You're not alone"? Yeah, that's how I'm feeling. You described perfectly what happens when depression strikes. I'm sorry that you are dealing w/ this right now. I've been there most of my adult life. Hang in there.
Monday, March 29, 2010 9:05:00 AM
GRAMEE,
I have missed you...haven't checked in here for awhile. I was so glad when I looked at my blog this morning and found your comments...I commented back to you over there. I had a good laugh...thank you !
I am so sorry you have been having a hard time...depression is hard to dig out of by yourself so all that good advice is wonderful...never know who will be helped by this post...good for you... I'll be out here praying for you ( I've been there myself )
Love,
Nonna
Monday, March 29, 2010 9:09:00 AM
Glad to see you back on the blogging circuit Auntie! Hope to continue to hear more from you!
Monday, March 29, 2010 10:27:00 AM
you are in my thoughts and prayers.. though it was nice to hear from you.. been sorta worried.. i'm thinking of you..
Monday, March 29, 2010 5:17:00 PM
I've struggled with depression, too, and have been quite open about it on my blog. Know that you can get a lot of love and support from the blogosphere. We're here for you. :)
Tuesday, March 30, 2010 6:12:00 AM
This was a wonderful and true explanation of depression. It is such a serious and real illness and so many suffer with it at different degrees. I was super happy when the Ensign did a big article about depression last year - it was a great validation!
You didn't say if it was you struggling with depression but if it is know you are not alone! You can get through it!
Also, you have made quite a few new AZ friends on my blog after your comment:) I loved how honest you were and appreciate your worse that I know others have felt including myself. Now it looks like you need a blogger meet in AZ with your new friends (wink).
Hope your day is happy!
And Happy Easter!!!
Tuesday, March 30, 2010 6:15:00 AM
sorry that should say "words" not "worse". I'm blogging from a computer that sometimes automatically changes my wording. Ugh
Tuesday, March 30, 2010 11:35:00 AM
And sometimes you don't even know you have depression until a sweet friend points it out to you and helps you to get the help you need, like what happened with me. It is not a fun thing to have.